Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Spanking Chart


So, one late summer day Gabe tells me, " These boys are getting in A LOT of trouble Mama. You should make them a spanking chart so that they can remember and learn to BE GOOD."


Eesh... I guess if the 4 year old has HAD IT, then maybe I need a spanking chart ASAP.


Now Corey and I have already had this discussion before: what qualifies for a spanking?



1. Lying
PICTURE- When your mouth doesn't tell TRUTH
Verses- Prov. 4:24 , 12:22, Exo. 20:16

2. Hurting others
PICTURE- When you do something mean with your hand, foot, or teeth and make someone cry
Verses- Rom. 12:10, 13:10 , Mark 12:31, John 13:34-35

3. Unsafe behavior
PICTURE- Going on the road without a parent, getting into medicine, not listening, bike safety
Verses- Rom. 12:1 , Prov. 4 : 10-11 (all of chapter 4 is good for this one!)

4. Defiance
PICTURE- Saying NO to an adult in charge (mainly parents) or deciding to say NO in your heart, deliberately disobeying
Verses- Eph. 6:1-3, Prov. 13:1

So I made the chart. Complete with VERSES and pictures. It is horribly done by a professional standard, but has been HUGE in consistency for COREY and MYSELF. The pictures make it age appropriate and the verse show WHY Corey and I MUST discipline our children.
SPANKING ~ Yes, Corey and I spank. For these things~ yet other items fall into these categories when they DEFY us. Spanking is done quickly (drop what we are doing by sending them to their room and quickly following them in there), respectfully (not in angered and is explained calmly VERY EASY WITH THE CHART AND VERSES THERE!), privately ( door shut from extremely interested brothers), firmly (with a wooden spoon on bare buns - yes it hurts them and we mean for it too as a DETERENT of future behavior) and lovingly (ending with Kisses/Hugs/Snuggles, resolution and ideas for "next time in that situation you will.... ).
  • I really car about this issue and would love any feedback on the verses, more for me?
  • What do you feel requires a spanking in your home?
  • How are you consistent?
  • How do you go about the spanking vs. disciplining process?
  • What do you use to change behavior besides spank?

My desire is to raise up GODLY, strong, wise men who are loving, respectful, hardworking, generous and loving. I think the foundation is started here. So I would love any response or feedback.

Raising kids is HARD work and not for COWARDS!

God bless,
Karen

57 comments:

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That's really cute. The pictures and scripture are great ideas I'd like to borrow. Thanks for sharing.

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Momma_c said...

I have plenty of common sence and completly agree. I know if i had gotten spanked more i wouldnt have pulled half the crap i did. My son is almost 8 months. And no i dont spank him now but i do pop his hand when desereved. And now he knows what he can and cant do even at 8 months. And everyone who meets him says he is the happiest baby they have ever seen. He recieves lots of love and attention when he doesnt do what he shouldnt. I love this chart and think i will make my own. Sometimes kids forget or just dont want to remember the consiquences for there actions. This is a good reminder that they will see everyday.

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